Exploratory phase, dates, acquaintances, is an important process of forming a relationship. To avoid the failure of this process, not one to steal from the start by knowing the contents of his mind.

1. “I’m afraid you can not fulfill the dream”
We started dating you and he’s usually open up to each other and tell each other. Good stories about the past and hope for the future. The likes of Eve unwittingly reveal high expectations for his future. For some men, these expectations can be a fun thing and he gladly offered himself to help you realize those expectations.

But not all think so. There is also a feeling scared because they can not meet your high expectations. That’s why, when you’re busy talking about a dream home, future dreams, and so on, he just looked at you with no expression. Before he lost his appetite, if you have grandiose expectations, it is better to think before expressed. Try to have more realistic expectations, because not only good for your relationship with him, but also for themselves.

2. “Does he feel comfortable?”
We have an interest in a woman; men tend to show his feelings. If you are sensitive and you can read, can certainly feel it. But many women can not read the feelings of men. That’s because the way men express different feelings with you. In your eyes, he may be ignorant. But try to see more jelly again, whether he is often embarrassed in front of you? Is he trying to make you laugh? If yes, he actually was trying to make you as comfortable as possible.

To him, your comfort with him is primary. If you know it and behave as expected, he would continue the relationship with you. However, if you do not realize it and act like nothing’s okay, man tends to be considering returning to continue the relationship with you.

3. “Her love is not enough”
Men sometimes more rational in view of the relationship. And to make a relationship work, men are more prone than women considerations. That’s why he will always think that love is never enough to make a relationship.

Although she revealed that she loves you, many other considerations before he dared to express it to you. The consequences of a relationship have also been thought about, either for his own life and those around him. So do not be surprised if he takes the time to express his feelings directly to you.

4. “Beautiful, really, but why less feminine, yes?”
Many women think that men are already likes, what he would accept the existence of women. It is not always true because there are many men who aspire to have a pair of feminine and soft. Maybe the steretype which makes many men think so.

In fact, it is not the feminine packaging that they are looking. They are looking for women who can make her feel needed. Men are looking for something that is not found in women when out with her friends. So, although your style is a bit masculine, try to make sure when you approach in the process create an atmosphere of fun with a slightly different attitude with his friends. That he felt there was something different and special about your self.

5. “I want to believe”
Not only you who want to believe, was the same man. He wants to get the full trust of the women who were close to him. The essence of a perfect relationship by many men is mutual trust. Men will get a sense of comfort when someone believes him. Trust it will trigger it to get closer to you.

6. “I want to please you”
As a first date, women tend to busy with appearances. We can prepare for days, clothes, makeup, to the topics you want brought up when dating. Obviously to make the he was impressed. Unlike us, when he was dating, intentions they just want us pleasure. The main focus or target of the men in dating is to create a pleasant atmosphere. So, forget your fake eyelashes, fill his desire to have fun with you.