Do not be too quick to judge your relationship with your partner. Although there are many quarrels or disagreements, it does not mean that your relationship is worse than other couples. Vice versa, the relationship is different in pairs without quarrel, does not necessarily mean that your relationship was fine.

1. Write down about the relationship of other people that you know
2. Discuss with your partner about other relationship in a detail.
3. Compare with your relationship
4. Know your strengths and your partner

If one by one issue can you face with your partner, that would be strength to deal with various problems in the future? You are the one who can measure it.