Development of information technology make our children very easy to get information about everything including sex. Not infrequently, they will receive information freely causes curiosity. How should parents be?
Discussing sex with children is very strange indeed, but it is better for children if the source of this information obtained from parents. In this way children can understand what sexual relations and how to get him to act on it with a reasonable proportion.
Many studies conclude, how to talk about sex of children in the form of open discussion and honest. This means that parents have had to create safety for children to talk about something, too, since they were children. Thus, when the discussion starts, the children do not feel middle interrogation from their parents. Prophylaxis guidelines following collected from several studies are:
1. It is time to start discussing sex with children is when they enter primary school age. This age is sufficient for the age of the children will understand the message of surrender. Whenever the child wants, as strange as any questions, try to react normally. Thus, the child will not feel afraid to find answers from their parents.
2. If you feel uncomfortable to start a discussion, an adult movie or song, which was captured their attention as a mediator. Suggest whether this is feelings of love, healthy friends with the opposite sex, and most importantly, how to make decisions for themselves.
3. Make your library and religious leaders as sources of additional information to the child. This will help your child get an idea, how should the opposite sex relationships, family relationships and friendships formed. In this way the child can understand that any relationship that exists has a sense of responsibility, respect for others.
4. Limit your child interaction site that provide information about sex too. This means that parents must still watch that any information obtained from the child according to his needs.